Stay away from the porn-porn that your relationship and couples No Mess

Jakarta, Video porn do not get addicted. For if the porn-porn addiction, relationship and your partner can get messy.
Research shows pornography can shape attitudes and encourage behavior harmful to self and family. For example, infidelity and divorce. In addition, it can also trigger pornography prostitution and other harmful behaviors that are not expected.

Some people believe when a person is aroused by partner, then it's okay if a little fantasize about sex or watching porn while having sex. Maybe it's a little help, but it is detrimental.
Try to imagine how you would feel to know your partner when imagined as porn star to fuck him. It also shows you are not sexually mature.
Why do some people like to access pornography? This is because some people think they do not get the 'feel' as though it was given a lot of sex stimulation. As a result of this pornography, sex counselor almost every day find a lot of impact.
Pornography is a special group of 'sex addiction' is different from promiscuity, compulsive masturbation, anonymous sex, pedophilia, and more. Porn itself can be described as an obsessive relationship with fantasy. For many people, it is often in the porn addictive sexual behavior binding.
Porn stuff can also destroy relationships that have previously been running well. Because addiction to pornography can make someone spend the time and money to indulge her with a porn-porn.
Dr. Victor Cline, researcher and professor of psychology, found the 4 stages of development people consume pornography:
1. Addiction: a powerful aphrodisiac effect, followed by sexual misconduct, mostly through masturbation.2. Escalation: Over time, addicts require more explicit materials and distorted to meet the 'needs'.3. Desensitization: What was originally thought to be dirty, shocking and disturbing, in some time become commonplace and acceptable.4. Behaving porn: Increased tendency to behave pornography.
This behavior can also be called 'compulsive behavior'. Behavior that is rooted from childhood can occur in men or women. It is believed that people who experience this come from families making less harmonious family functioning did not run properly.
There is also evidence that people who are addicted to pornography triggered by physical or sexual abuse in childhood. Even kerappula rape cases due to exposure to pornography started culprit.
In the United States, precisely in Phoenix where there are business 'prostitution' has a number of sexual deviance 506 percent greater than other areas that do not have a business. Dr. Mary Anne Layden, a leader in education at the University of Pennsylvania said in 13 years he has helped the healing of victims and perpetrators of sexual violence.
"I did not get any cases that do not involve pornography," he said.
Well, if you lose the desire to partner, try looking back at your relationship. Find out why it happened. If necessary, use the services of a counselor.
Avoid blaming each other or even vent on pornography. When a couple decides to settle down, not forged relationships more than sex?
Sources: http://health.detik.com/read/2013/03/05/200313/2186707/1390/